Would it be wrong of me to find a girl who's beauty is flawed, with plans to fix her through plastic surgery?
I've gone out with plenty of good looking girls in the past, but I find that most of them want to be pampered, don't want to work, expect you to be the one who drives or has a car, and so on. Maybe they've been conditioned to think this way because they've nearly always been treated better then average, but I'm sick and tired of it, and I'd prefer someone who works just as hard as I do, and who drives, since I can no longer legally do so. I've finally come up with the perfect plan. Find a girl who is good looking, but maybe has one or more flaws eg: bad nose, double chin, large ears... whatever the problem, something that a couple thousand dollars of plastic surgery at most could fix. I've got several thousand dollars saved up for something fun (I was going to get an ATV or something like that). What if I found a flawed girl who worked and drove, got her to fall in love with me, then told her that she was getting plastic surgery, and I was paying. Would I be wrong in doing so? I don't mind finding someone for love, but would it be wrong of me not to tell them that I plan on making sure they're good looking to. I find that a lot of girls with less attractive faces or teeth, are the ones with the best personalities, and are "real people". All I'm doing is making the package as good as what's inside of it. To clarify things, it's not that I don't mind a few flaws... BUT, I like to have the best of everything. When I drove I had a Cadillac Deville, the average outfit that I wear costs a minimum of $500, I usually drop a few hundred at the bar or at restaurants even if I only stay an hour. Whever I buy electronics I've got to have the high end stuff. So basically, I want a high end girl, but I want someone who actually has personality, who understands what it's like to work for everything you've got, not just to have it handed to you because you're beatiful, and preferrably who drives (since I can't, and we're both going to look like idiots taking the bus everywhere). C'est Moi! - After taxes it was over $60,000... considering I had it when I was 19, I thought it was pretty high class, and so did all the girls I picked up in it.
Public Comments
- yes, ur a meanie
- uhm duh?
- yes!!! you should love girl just how she is.
- dude why dont you just find a girl you actually like. its not all about looks
- Be prepared find someone looking for a man to pay for her to get fixed up and then plans to dump him. Use your head man, that's a terrible idea.
- *shakes head sadly instead of ranting and cursing at the stupid stupid man* Yes. That would be wrong. Buy the ATV
- Not sure about wrong but shallow yes.
- id love for someone to give me free plastic surgery, but ya, its wrong to trick them into, definitely
- I think that you would be...unless you make it clear to her up front (which i know you probably don't want to do). I'd just keep looking for a girl you like for all that she is. Because this plan is pretty mean
- yes, that would be wrong. it would hurt her that you only liked her for her looks. not everybody is perfect.
- are you serious? This is the most ridiculous thing I've heard.
- Oh, you so know it would be wrong. You don't want to be used - what makes you think that that girl wants to? And if you EVER insist that someone get surgery, well, you'll probably be watching the back of her as she walks out of your life.
- yeah i guess but instead of doing that have more patience and find a girl who is pretty and hard working and independent you just have to look harder
- dude tahts really shallow
- Why not just love the girl for who she is and what she looks like.. That is really shallow of you.
- I think you know the answer to that question :) Are you just trying to wind people up? How about you take that money and go on a holiday, stop thinking about girls, enjoy yourself have some fun and live a little. When you stop thinknig about girls and trying to force something to happen, to find someone, then you will find someone when you least expect it. Or, give the money to charity, the homeless or someone deserving, you will feel better and your self-esteem will increase and you won't need to find someone to 'fix'.
- Yes, I'm sure not all pretty girls act that way. Also, why in the world would you point out her flaws, and say you would be willing to pay for her to get rid of it. That's just mean.. just find a girl you're attracted to and has a good personality. If not, accept her damn flaws or be single forever
- of course u dumbass
- i think that is rediculous. wouldn't they be attractive even with these flaws? if i was dating someone like you and said i'm paying for you to get it done i'd leave. i'd feel offended. i think its sick.
- This will totally back fire. She will develop all of the traits you are trying to avoid once she gets her free plastic surgery. Maybe that was her plan all along!! SUCKER!! EDIT: Cadillac Deville??? Ok, grandpa.
- jeez bud. having to drive a car in order to keep a pretty girl happy? that's pretty tough. there's nothing wrong with what you're proposing, just pretty shallow and mostly unfair. look: i think that personality is important. but what you're really wanting to do is to take someone with little self-esteem, "repair" them and then treat them according to their own (low) concept of self worth. that takes advantage of someone who might be vulnerable. also, i'm guessing you're the sort of dude who would pay for it and then expect that because of that she'd HAVE to stay with you, at least for a while. which is also wildly unfair. i think you probably shouldn't even toss around words like "love" if you're thinking this way.
- I think you should spend the $2000 on plastic surgery for yourself. lol
- Reverse it. Now how would you feel if a girl thought that you needed plastic surgery? It would hurt alot. No wonder you're attracting women like that it's because your an asshole.
- well... idk, studies actually prive that love is blind... if you lucky enough to fall in love.. all the defects are less noticable just becuase you're in love... on the other hand if there was something wrg wit me i sure wouldnt mind someone paying for it to be fixed.. but its kind of hard not to be insulted if you bring it up frst...
- hey jerk! yes thats wrong! she would be so mad at u if u told her that she was getting plastic surgery, that would make her think somethings wrong with her!!!!!!!!
- That would be a good thing. Don't get me wrong, a woman with a great personality would be wonderful company. But you can't give her personality a good schlonging. If a few touch-ups could make it work for you, then I say go for it.
- omg what is wrong with you!?
- Is that you in the picture? Maybe you should fix yourself first! :P
- yeahh thats so wrong poor girl you'll make her feel awful
- THERE IS A SIMPLE FORMULA TO FOLLOW: NICENESS = 1 / BEAUTY
- God's formulas are accurate, however, if you can find a chick that has zero self esteem and still doesn't think she is hot after the surgery, your plan could work. Make sure you make her feel worthless and inferior both before and after the surgery.
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