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how to convince my mother about plastic surgery?

Hello, please do not take this wrong ! My mother is 46 years old and her husband 8 years younger, she keeps telling me that she feels insecure with her body due to 3 kids and her husband being younger than her ( i have seen young girls cheking him out) and it bothers me . They have been married for about 20 years but things are getting difficult between then now since she does not look as young as she used to and even if my stepfather seems to love my mother, sometimes i feel that he reject her because of her body image and so i want my mother to look go so she can kick him out and feel confident with herself. I believe that people have to look good for their partners. I personally had breast augmentation 6 months ago ( I'm 25) because I was very flat and I always wanted to feel more secure about that part of my body (woman with plastic surgery are going to understand me) so I keep telling my mother that she needs an upgrade on her chest and tummy but instead she wants to expend money in a new nissan pathfinder.I know that she wants to get surgery too but she seems to care more about her appearance in a new car than in a new body which i find stupid, she always put her body image in a second plase. I keep telling her that her marriage is going to end if she does not do something or even worst, her husband is going to go away with a woman his age and she is going to end all alone and old. Now my question is, how can i convince her that what she needs is surgery to stop feeling older and infirior? how can i get in to her mind and make her understand that she is not ugly or old and that she is capable of looking better and so find a better partner? thank you thank you he keeps on telling her how fat she is and how her chest and stomach are getting worst with time so i feel bad for her,( i want her to feel and look good and kick him out for her oun sake ... does not matter how much you feel young inside if your mirrow is telling you all the opposite thank you for your time

Public Comments

1. well i first off want to commend u, ur mother should never feel ugly or inferior because she is older than her husband. does he tell her these things? i sure as heck hope not!!!! first off (i have never had plastic surgery) so it may not be the case but i think she needs to believe in herself and her beauty or else even if she gets the surgery she will still feel the same. has she tried exercising? and its just unsuccessful? why doesnt she try going with her husband? that may bring their bond closer together and she can feel better. after that its up to her, u can suggest things to her, but really if her husband doesnt love her cuz shes getting older he needs a serious wake up call!
2. seems like your more concentrated on your mom looking good for you than him...i think you shoul take your moms side on this one....tell her that she is beautiful and that even if he leaves her she can do better...but stop tell her that she needs plastic surgery that only makes her feel more insecure about herself than she already is...especially coming out of her daughters mouth