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Is it a bad thing to be average looking? Will plastic surgery make the huge difference I think it will?

This is also just a survey to ask if people think that average is the new ugly. Also, in my opinion, my lack of high cheek bones makes me genetically defective. Is it a bad thing to be average looking? Will plastic surgery make the huge difference I think it will? I think it is? have surgeries helped average looking people become pretty? This is one of my life's goals since I achieved everything else. Be honest: what surgeries will help me go from blah average worthless looking to pretty and approachable? Look, I'm so honest with myself, be honest in your response: http://www.flickr.com/photos/28891892@N06/2696617290/ http://www.flickr.com/photos/28891892@N06/2695801145/in/photostream/ http://www.flickr.com/photos/28891892@N06/2695801073/in/photostream/ I know I look like the girl who ended up killing herself because no one cared. So help!!!! Will a nose job make a huge difference? Believe it or not, I've turned my extreme self-hate, into an interesting sociology project. Go figure. Why are looks so pervasive in life?

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i can tell you right now you totally do NOT need any kind of plastic surgery , you are very attractive, cute, sexy and all that. please dont waste your money you are above average looking.
Uhm......I only WISH I looked like you. No really, look, www.myspace.com/hannah_hannahwho. You don't need surgery AT ALL. -Edit- A mole, or a nose, or botox injections...none of those make the person you are. Your character and integrity and values are what people are going to remember. SO whatever problems you think would surgery would fix are superficial and if you don't love yourself now, how will you love yourself after surgery? you'll still find things wrong with yourself because you didn't learn to accept yourself BEFORE the surgery...... and sooner or later turn into that socialelite who literally looks like a damn cougar. Now you KNOW you're prettier than that thing.
I think your cute, why the low self esteem?
What's wrong with being average looking. TO be honest you don't need any plastic surgery.......save it for the people who truly need it
Just be who you are and live your life, I think you're really pretty(This is not just to stop you from killing yourself I'm telling the absolute truth).
i really think that as long as you like the way you look, then don't change it. but if you really don't like something, then change it. if you think it's worth the surgery, then go ahead and do it. but if you don't think the surgery is gonna make a huge difference, than don't.
Plastic is the new ugly. I think to be truly beautiful you have to be right with yourself. Plastic surgery is not a a long term self esteem booster but rather a downer because the person has only changed their appearance and not their rotten soul
I think your pretty. I have seen people with plastic surgery they look ugly. They looked better before rather than after. I look average everyone is pretty. You have nice teeth and a pretty smile. I like your eyes too. Don't loose confidence in your self. Accept yourself the way you are. =)
I am an honest person, truly. I see nothing wrong with the way you look. Not with your cheekbones or anything else. I'm serious. I think you are a beautiful exotic woman. Whatever is making you feel this way goes far deeper than your skin. Do what makes you happy, but make sure you do it for the right reasons. Best of luck to you.
I've never been a strong advocate for plastic surgery in most cases, in some it can help, but too many use it to help solve a self-confidence problem that won't go away with plastic surgery. Once you fix one thing, you'll find another thing to fix, then another, then another, becoming an obsession. I don't think you're average, you're very pretty! And no, I'm not saying that to try and dissuade you from surgery, if you want it that bad, go for it. But I know a lot of people who value natural beauty over the artificial. The bad thing about plastic surgery is that sometimes it's very obvious that someone's had it. Whenever I see someone with it I instantly think "confidence issue".
First of all, you do look better than average. Take a walk through any store or shopping center and look around, you can not possibly think that half the people look better than you. Second, physical beauty is good for maybe 5 minutes of attention, after that, you have to earn it. A good sense of humor will go a lot farther, and last a lot longer than a nose picked out of a magazine.
Most people are average looking, so don't dis all of us by changing your appearance so that you don't want to hang anymore. LOL. Really, pretty can be a curse. Guys will want to be with you as a trophy -- look at my hot girlfriend -- which is nice for a while. I don't know how many trophies I've thrown away over the years, but I've been married to an attractive, but average-looking wife for 12 years. Though I like the way she looks, there are so many more reasons I love her. Even supermodels and hot actresses get dumped. And keeping up your appearance is a never-ending expensive battle.
Good grief. You are very good looking, approachable, and hardly "genetically defective!" If you truly feel a nose job will make you feel better about yourself, then go for it. Just don't become one of those people who are addicted to plastic surgery and end up looking like freaks. Plastic surgery in and of itself will not make you happy. Don't place so much importance on superficial appearance. Lasting beauty comes from within.
You have like noo self-confidence at all. That's a major problem. Calling yourself ugly 24/7 (even making you username 'ugly') is defining yourself. Everyone goes through a not-so-attractive phase in their life (or at least to themselves) and I'm guessing you did, too, and you're not getting over it. "Ugly" may have defined you then, but it doesn't now. I'm not going to harp on how pretty you are since it almost seems like you're fishing for compliments but you're closer to being pretty than average. Don't do plastic surgery, please, it'll ruin you. Be happy for who you are instead of changing it.
I looked at you pics and I don't understand why you think you are ugly. I do not believe plastic surgery will help you. It seems to me that you feel your worth comes from what others think and in that case you will always be dissapointed no matter how much you spend on surgery. People respond to confidence and the inner glow of how special you think you are. You are unique, a one of a kind, the outside is fine, true beauty comes from within.
We spend so much time withourselves we tend to forget all our hot qualities and focus on little things that nobody else notices at all. I cringe at the word "genetically defective" - especially on point of asthetics which varies greatly from person to person. I'm sure you know this - take any pretty person and look at them intensely through out the day you'll find they are classically pretty about a certain time of day, in a particular environment, and from a cetain angle. Rest of the time they look...average. C'mon even britney spears and jessica simpson have bad days right? I don't think looks are pervasive. That just a media thing, and it's obvious why they're obsessed. It's okay that they are obsessed it's their career. They are obssesed so they think everybody else is obssesed. And many people buy into that. looking at your pics - you're hot. Seriously if you became an actress you would get all that extra care that actresses always get and you'll be extra-smokin. So don't self-hate. Beside don't you know that what makes a woman really hot is not just looks but confidence, a wicked wit, and...um...can have fun in bed. btw, are you Indian? I think Indian girls are realy really hot ;)
NO matter how many people tell you you're STILL going to think you aren't pretty, which honestly, I really do think you are very pretty! You remind me a little of Katie Holmes, but I think you are much prettier than her really. But (and I suffer from the same thing you do unfortunately) please don't let anyone tell you how to look, can't you just tell yourself how pretty you are? Start seeing the positive things about you! You are gorgeous! Really, I mean that, I won't lie to people on here, I won't say anything incredibly mean either, and usually if I can't say something that isn't incredibly hurtful, I don't even answer. I wish I was as pretty as you! You have great, dark features and a beautiful smile. Don't ruin it buy getting plastic surgery. Janice Dickenson has had plastic surgery and so has pam anderson and you look WAY better than both of them, they look gross now, like freaks! Don't do anything to your face, please, it's a really nice one. But if it is necessary to make you happy, whatever then, but it is NOT necessary to make you pretty because you already are.
You need to stop worrying about what you look like on the outside. You are a beautiful woman. And if you feel like you are not attractive, and beautiful, then there is some dis-connect that is going on inside you. Have you ever noticed how some very unattractive men end up with gorgeous women? It is because these men are attractive, especially on the inside, and they have found that their personality, and the way they treat people will attract who they want in their lives. You also need to realize your outer skin, your face, etc... is just your vehicle that carries your essence / soul. If you start working more on your beautiful soul, it will start to project on the outside. And the more you sparkle for others to see... they will want to be around you, you will make them feel good about themselves, and in return, this should make you feel amazing inside and out. There is a quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson that states how we cannot genuinely help others without helping ourselves. So, I think you need to step back a bit, work on the person you are on the inside, and help others with their plights and welcome the rewards that will return to you. Oh an yes, to answer your question... plastic surgery can do wonders for anyone. It can give you a bigger this, or a smaller that. But NO plastic surgery can give you a bigger, genuine compassionate heart. Only you can do this, and you have the power to DO IT!! Thanks for reading!
i think maybe you should get your nose and chin done though i'm not 100% sure and YES SURGERY DOES MAKE A HUGE DIFFERENCE! i want to get it soooooo bad people will say "who cares about how you look" well , that's cool if you want to be a hermit in life, but if you want to have friends and be involved with people looks do mean ALOT you should check out Louis Theroux's "Under the Knife" documentary, it is on youtube search for it. there is one girl who gets her nose done, another gets liposuction, and another gets a browlift. you see them go into surgery and how they look after they have healed, and WOW it is a huge difference! the girl with the big nose goes from looking weird and pissy, to happy looking don't believe the people who say surgery doesn't matter, it does