Friend called me ugly.. feel awful?
Or she meant it implicitly, without saying it outright. So I have this close female friend (im male), and was at her place when she was showing me her facebook where she points out one particular photo and is like "wow look at this look at how many comments I've gotten on it" and she showed me all of them were like "wow ur so hot etc. etc." and I was like "yeah great" then she said "but uve got to admit this wouldn't happen on any of ur photos no offense" and this pretty much made me feel like ****. I could just tell from the tone of her voice she knew she was better looking than me and it's so depressing because there is nothing I can do to change how my face is. And I know I'm not gorgeous but it still hurts. I keep thinking I am ugly now and I don't want to leave the house and let people see mee ugly face. Please don't comment "it's inside what counts" and "u need confidence" PLZ. What do i do :( Plastic Surgery?
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- A guy is going to comment on a girls picture saying "your hot" before a girl is going to do the same on a guys picture... If she's saying that, she isn't a good friend. And I don't care how hot she might be on the outside, she sounds pretty damn ugly inside.
- That's nasty! She doesn't sound like a good friend, I suggest you get a new friend.
- work on becoming rich. then all the pretty girls will want you. not much else you can do, maybe work out. a lot of girls are happy with just a really nice body.
- hey yeah, im a girl but just cause im not a stick i get the baged out lol. if shes a real friend she wouldnt say that like whats with that ? is she like up her self. you prob dnt wanna hear this but i would rather be nice on the inside like you and not think about other people like that. seriously would she like it if you said it to her? which you wouldnt well i hope not. serously like dont worry about her. dont get plastic surgery one day she will wake up and realise how awful she has been top you. good luck GOD BLESS YOU x
- you really dont need any major surgery to make yourself look good. little things can enhance what you already have, like a new hair cut, glasses if you dont need them the fashion kind that are cute, even colored contacts. there is def not need to do something like surgery
- In the words of SlipKnoT 'I'm fat, I'm ugly, and I don't give a f*ck!' Girls generally care about the man inside, its an evolutionary thing, so I wouldn't worry.
- what a bitch. everybody is beautiful. don't worry, she maybe pretty on the outside, but she sure as hell isnt on the inside. dont change yourself, wouldnt you want somebody to like you for the person you are, not what you look like?
- Who cares??? Dw bout wat u look lyk. Girls only go 4 ur personality. U'l turn out hotter wen ur older. Btw, plastic surgery is 4 fukheads who wana look reali hot wen there not. Leav urself alone. B thankful that u hav okay looking features.
- It was a very thoughtless and cruel remark - which makes her sound very shallow. But remember, that is only her opinion. Other people will see you differently. And altho you say you don`t want to hear that old chestnut that `Beauty is only skin deep` - you know it is true. Or should do. We are what we are, not how we look.
- Don't be ridiculous, she is clearly not a real friend. Plastic surgery should only be available for people who are disfigured. You need to get yourself a new friend sweetie as this one is clearly not doing anything good for you. You will feel a hell of a lot better if your around people who don't put you down What she doesn't realize is that lads are only commenting her these things because they want to sleep with her and that's cheap degrading attractiveness, not something to be desired for yourself. Sorry this is a bit harsh but I've been in your situation and I know it feels s*** so I'm telling you now get yourself out of there!
- maybe you have to find a women who will love you the way you are. or maybe you're not her type of guy! For plastic surgery, don't do it you'll spoil your face, it won't look natural. Plastic surgery would be like a MASK TO COVER YOUR FACE Just be yourself ! GOOD LUCK
- All poor baby. You don't need plastic surgery. I am probably ugly myself but I don't think it. I think I am pretty. You got to think positive about yourself. I am sure you are so pretty. You will be ok. I am sure lots of people have commented you on your beauty. I can see you right now and you are prettier than your friend. How dare her say that about you. Yall are equal too. Don' let her think that way about you. Just keep your chin up and strut your stuff. Like your walking on the model runway with Giselle or Tyra. Do the catwalk the catwalk. sEE you and God Bless!!
- I am so sorry you have such a horrible friend. I would just call her ugly back and say stuff like 'if you didn't wear a sh1tload of makeup, you'd be hideous' then say 'aww just kidding' after you've got a reaction. These stuck up people need to be taught a lesson honestly. If she goes all huffy and upset just say 'you shouldn't take things so serious' She was a bitch to say that, it's not what a friend is supposed to be like. Why would you want to be friends with a stuck up girl who loves herself and puts you down?
- The inside of the person that can determine if you are ugly or beautiful. i never looked at looks in men
- she sounds like a slut fuk her dood even if you dont think your pretty sumone elec dose. realy who cares what other people think. people say im way to danm pretty for my boyfriend but i think hes beautifulll<3 so dont care what your snobby lil friend says your beautifull to someone as long as you keep your head up and not let stupid comment disscourage you. and you clearly said not to say it but its true, confudence is key<3
- most good looking guys are up their own arses, i think personality counts for a lot, a sense of humour is so attractive no matter what u look like!
- Well, the situation can be interpreted in so many ways.... Did she smile while saying it? She could have been joking, you know.... For example, i had this hot female friend who used to tease me quite a lot and later I realized it was all done in a fond manner and she was always smiling jokingly while teasing me. Secondly, you should know that women generally like to be complimented. Who knows, maybe she was expecting you [as a male] to reaffirm those comments and since you didn't, maybe she reacted by throwing a negative comment at you. I'm certainly NOT gorgeous (pretty moderate, really), but I've realized that as girls get mature, [16+] they tend to be wary of good looks only. Instead, girls/women are really attracted to confident and "in charge" guys. Therefore with this knowledge, go forth and conquer the world... ;-)
- She seems mean. She probably went on facebook saying PC4PC PC4PC over and over again. and don't sweat it looks aren't everything.
- she did mean offense even though she said no offense she was showing off and trying to make herself feel good by making you feel bad. i think u should stop being friends with her if she keeps being like this, so don't believe a word she says
- hmmm kinda sounds like your "friend" is a jealous Bitch:) Maybe you should try to find a new friend who doesnt make you feel like shit. im sure your a nice person and thats all that really matters.
- a "friend"?
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