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Sister called me ugly.. feel awful?

Or she meant it implicitly, without saying it outright. I'm reasonably close to my sister and was in her room when she was showing me her facebook where she points out one particular photo and is like "wow look at this look at how many comments I've gotten on it" and she showed me all of them were like "wow ur so hot etc. etc." and I was like "yeah great" then she said "but uve got to admit this wouldn't happen on any of ur photos no offense" and this pretty much made me feel like ****. I could just tell from the tone of her voice she knew she was better looking than me and it's so depressing because there is nothing I can do to change how my face is. And I know I'm not gorgeous but it still hurts. I keep thinking I am ugly now and I don't want to leave the house and let people see mee ugly face. Please don't comment "it's inside what counts" and "u need confidence" PLZ. What do i do :( Plastic Surgery?

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Wow, your sister is a bizatch. Don't listen to her. I would seriously consider telling her that she made you feel like shite though. What a dumb c.
i would be worried about your sister she seems like one of those women on their way to getting raped and murdered
My sister always tells me those type of things to make my self esteem low. Its okay, they're probably joking around with you.
wow its a sibling thats what they do my brother beats me up and i dont complain
Nothing - you're fine. I know this because your sister bashed you. If you were really ugly, then she wouldn't have gone to that much effort because she wouldn't have felt competitive.
talk bak to ur sis and tell her how u feel we are all filled with flaws so keep that in mind cuz if your going through this the chances are very likely someone else is too so do not worry too much you have enough confidence just dont be so insecure
I feel the same as you sometimes, regardless how many compliments I get. You need to build up your confidence, cos they key to beauty is a confident woman! Your sister is being immature, I assume she is younger than you! Plastic surgery is by far the worst option. Stop comparing yourself to your sister, I'm sure you're beautiful.
OKAY I wont give you all those sappy answers at the end but, y don't you remind yourself that you and ur sister must have some facial features in common and make sure you exaggerate them! I think it was rude of your sister to say that to you and that you should let her know. Don't worry im sure you look just as good as ur sis
you get over it. ive always been the ugly girl, but people will think youre uglier if you hide away from the world instead of having fun.
i'd go and slap her cuz that's just rude, but maybe that's cuz i'm just a wee bit violent, anyway, you shouldn't care what your sister says, that just her bratyness, no offense to your sister but it's true, Anyone who says something like that is just outright rude. I think you should just go out there and not give a D*&M about what anyone else says.... :)
Plastic Surgery=NO!!! honestly she sounds like a snob I think you might be very cute I don't know why but it kinda feels like you might be (IDK) but whatever you do don't get surgery it's creepy and most people end up looking worse
oh, my god... your sister is SO mean... I'm really close to my sister, too and she'd never say anything like that. I know being pretty helps w/ friends and being popular, but really it's your personality. Nobody is just not going to be friends w/ you because you're not gorgeous. ps, don't get plastic surgery! Do you want to look like Michael Jackson?
The more average looking you are, the sweeter you are. The better chances of finding a nice decent guy. The better chances of someone actually falling in love for who you are. Plus seriously, everyone is pretty. I'm not even saying that. In every person you can find something about them that is ugly and something that is pretty. Not much advice and it might make you feel worse actually ha... But.. "Even the female beta fish get chosen." Dumb quote I'd say but an old Friends told me that a while back and if you think deep into that it makes Sense. Female beta's are brown and plain but there's always someone who takes them homeee.
your sister sounds like she is the ugly one, don't let cocky people get you down. people like her just say that to make them selves feel better:)
Sisters are just like that. Make sure and tell her you hurt your feelings bad,that's not the way a sister should treat one another. But im almost 100% your not ugly.. just push everything beside; and stand strong. don't let words affect you,in any way! Answer mine,please? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AgXDHYP98e_U1RTrWz._b0Lsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090803111553AAkDKIU
Ok first of all find something to say that will upset your sister. Second, wear makeup to enhance your good features and fix your hair in flattering ways... These things can make anyone look acceptable. I feel like shit also sometimes -- all my friends are gorgeous. Everyone is like that sometimes. Maybe your sister didn't mean it badly... still, make her feel bad - you'll enjoy it!
one time my friend told me that she showed her older sister photos her friend on facebook and her sis told her " omg .. she is so pretty .. she'd crush u" but the fact is that this girl is actually not as pretty as my friend i dunno why im tellin u this .. but i think its a similar story maybe ur sister meant that u dnt have as much friends as her or somethin .. i dunno but if ur actually ugly .. she wouldnt have said that to u keep in mind that sometimes sisters get jealous from each other and plastic surgery ?? seriously ?? .. if she's ur older sister .. then u cant compare urself to her and believe me ull forget that .. and this feeling will go away soon =)
I promise that if your sister said that to you,...she is feeling her own insecurity and you must have something about you that she envies. She probably considers you an easy target to vent her own lack of confidence since you are her sister and she knows you love her. I know that sounds ridiculous if she is bragging about how good she thinks her picture represents her, but she probably doesn't really feel that pretty. She was probably looking for you to build her up, say how beautiful she is because she doesn't really believe it herself. You will learn when you are older that ANYONE who talks about how pretty they are, especially if it knocks someone else, is questioning their own worth and needs validation from someone else. I'm not saying you should have more confidence,...every person finds it their own way- what I'm saying is that your sister obviously lacks her own and is using you to make herself feel better.
wow, true beauty is in confidence just wake up every morning and name on good thing you like about yourself make a list of it for one month write every complement on a separate peace of paper put it in a box and open it at the end of the month DON'T READ ANY OF THEM UNTIL THE END. hope it works and remember just be yourself if you have a good personality than it doesn't matter how you look.
Well my older sister always did that to me, it is because she craves that reaction from you, because it makes her feel more powerful and controlling over you. Just say "Ok, lets just go with that'' next time it happens.What seemed to help me get over giving her that reaction id just making your-self look pretty -clothing,make-up,jewelry,etc-. If you really really are considering plastic surgery, it takes lots of risks -health-. But also to bring up that you are beautiful -i am pretty sure you are or your sister would not be doing that to you- ask your friends for more encouragement, like "Oh, that dress looks amazing on you, buy it''. So my point is just dont let her keep telling you that. Good Luck! `not.too.tan
Honestly it sounds to me like your sister is in-secure with herself if she has to purposely point stuff out like that! And truth be told anyone can give themselves a complete make over and look hot! Some pictures people look real good and others they look like a completely different person! Do something to make yourself feel good! Get your hair done, nails done go get a cute outfit! I highly recommend not getting plastic surgery because it isn't worth the risk of making yourself worse! I think you should confront your sister but truth be told the only reason she is saying stuff like that is because she is insecure. You must have something that she doesn't! Go do something fun that brightens your mood and helps you and only you! PS.....Your sister has it comin to her.....someone will end up commenting something not so nice on her pix!
sisters are sisters. all they like to do is bring you down because they think there the s*** when actually they probably think your prettier and find you a threat so they will just bring up there boost by insulting you. the best thing you can do is fight back!!
I understand exactly what your talking about. My sister used to do the same thing. One thing to know is that everybody is beautiful. Human life is the beautifulist thing on this earth. Beauty fades. When she is old and wrinkly she isn't going to ever be the bombshell she was. Everybody goes through an akward stage in there looks. I also want you to go to your sister and tell her that she isn't the most georgeous person on this earth and that if you aren't amazing and extravagent that people usually don't use you. You also find the most genuine people.
Sisters can be mean. Downright brutal, even. It's hard for me to even offer an opinion because I don't know what you look like or the circumstances in which this was said. Sometimes people will say the one thing that they know will hurt you the most if something is upsetting them inside regardless of whether it's true or not. OR, maybe you just haven't blossomed yet. I was the ugliest little kid you'd ever see on the streets up until like age 15.
dont listen to ur sister shes juss bein mean and i have a bro that says that all the time. juss ignore her.