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what is wrong with me?

okay so, i am married to a very good looking man, i love and respect him. I do everything for him, i'll cook snd clean, get up an hour or two before he does to iron his uniform for work which for me is usually 4 A.M. and this is after falling asleep at 12 or 1 due to the fact i scratch his back and pla in his hair till his falls asleep. I will send him luch with cute little notes, ans send him dirty e-mails and pictures to his email and cell phone just to spice it up for when he arrives home. I'll rub his feet... I HATE FEET but i rub the mans feet. He blames his bad days on me never hold me anymore alwayas looking and complementing other women, rather look at porn than be in bed with me. everyday hes looking and porn pics videos etc. a link was pulled up on the cpu my guess is he left he there by mistake but talking about horny girls within miles from our city looking for horny men... like its stated LA so he had to type it in. Also we moved here from ga hes in the air force...well i left everything to come here. i do not have friends here cause i've yet to meet any...and hes always going off doing things he swore we'd do together while i am ALWAYS at home with my little girl whoes 2. might i mention i lost ALL my baby weight 1 week after having here. im a size 2 jeans with 36c bra bright brown eyes tight butt banging body...i mean wtf? hhis reason for not being sexual or nice is he says he is "depressed" yet none of his friend nor family gets treated the way i do and porn gets the sexual attention. i've never felt so ugly in my life....i convinced myself i need a tummy tuck, and fake boobs. i want plastic surgery just to be more appealing to him... thats pretty sad...he yells and cusses at me all the time, never opens up to me but i never bitch at him about anythng so why wouldn't he? I recently made a video slide show for him and it only said" o thanks that was good" it took 3 dyas to make it...im confused

Public Comments

1. it seems like he has lost interest in you. you are a beautiful young woman and maybe its time that you found a man that will always love you. its pretty clear that the man is cheating on you with other woman. nothing is wrong with you. you are perfectly fine. you should take your daughter and move back home. you need so so much better then him. if you do all the things that you said you do the you are a DAMN good wife and need and deserve much better for yourself. you should tell him that you sick of him and the way that he takes you for granted. your much better then he will ever get. move on and find something new that will respect you.
2. there is nothing wrong with you. prepare for a big knock to your self esteem. this happens in all realtionship to both men and women alike. im more like the man in your relationship. my boyfriend rubs my feet and is really nice, but that kindness is easy to take for granted, and that is exactly what i do, take it for granted. if i were you, i'd lay off him a bit. start being a bit more independent and doing things without him. don't be too obvious about it tho
3. oh hunney , this man is slowly tearing your self esteem away. it honestly sounds like you two are not happy, and he thinks that he has control over you and he is the superior one. he may be depressed though :/ i got depressed like 6 months back and i took EVERYTHINGGGGG out on my best mate because she was the only one that i felt totally chilled with... don't do anything drastic yet though. try couples councelling or something. just talk with him... good luck xoxox
4. you need to sit im down make shure there's no distractions and tell him straight up how u feel. tell him what you've told me and demand an awnser for his idiocy.
5. First of all there is nothing wrong with you. Your husband is going through some mid life crisis and he needs to realize that you are a good wife and mother and you keep yourself looking pretty and he needs to treat you with respect. Maybe you as couple need to go to therapy and find out why he is looking at porn and acting the way he is . It sounds like you spoil him and you are so loving to him and I can't imagine what is going through him head. I don't think you need surgery at all, he is the one that needs to change himself and its from the inside and he needs to find himself a heart and use it and not to look at some stupid slutty girls online. You need some couple therapy before its too late and you have a child to think about.