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I am so ugly =/ Its not fair?

ALL my cousins are really good looking. Tall,Big eyes etc etc. Me..Im tall too..but my eyes are small and dull..my Nose is Big..I have a very small forehead and Side swept bangs and layered hair..the only style i like wont suit me. I have long black wavy hair. I feel sooo Ugly. i would show a picture but im not comfortable showing my picture =/ it could possibly be all in my head But A SMALL FOREHEAD..SMALL EYES..BIG NOSE..all in one isnt so good =/ i want plastic surgery so bad for my Nose. But i know theres not so good Side Effects of plastic Surgery. And its even worse i have Dark brown eyes which make them appear even Smaller. my skin is Light Brown. It annoys me so badly im this ugly. Iv never had anything work out for me in life..now Im realising how horrible i look. im a 16 year old girl. and people say "your nose has years to GROW" and it makes me feel even worse. I DONT WANT IT TO GROW. i know alot of girls feel this way but atleast if they dont have a good nose they have big beautiful eyes..if they dont have nice eyes atleast they have a proper nose. i feel like im ugly everywhere. the only thing that could ever help me just a bit is Makeup..which i do not know how to wear. But i can not make my forehead bigger..i cant make my Nose look good according to my face shape. i feel like a Failure =/ . And my cousins get all the attention..Im the ugly One that no one really gives a crap about. Help me pleasse. any advice would be helpful. and i am not looking for attention.

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you are who you are. deal with it. stop crying. everyone has flaws. be proud of who you are.
You can't help the way you were born, and if people look down on you because of your appearance, then they need to go to hell. You are who you are. If anything, blame your dad for banging your mom too hard doggy style lol.
This is going to sound Barbie-ish, but to tell you the truth...You are who you are and if you have confidence or at tleast try to have confidence, maybe your personality will (oh gosh I cant belive im saying this)....."shine" and people will see that your beautiful....On the inside.. OH MAN THAT WAS SOO WEIRD, sorry. But I'm serious, take that advice!
First of all, NOBODY in the world is ugly. (In my book, anyways) Everybody is beautiful. You have to believe that. Even if you don't think you are beautiful on the outside, your personality is the most important beauty there is.
look. i discovered this a long time ago. my nose is big and has a bump in it. so what i can still breathe. my boobs are small. so what i can still feed a baby when i need to. my hips are nonexistent. so what i cant wear whatever pants i want and i dont have to deal with problems hippier girls have to. your body is meant for you to live in, no matter how much you complain and bitch about it you're stuck with it. and guess what no amount of plastic surgery can cover up self esteem issues. as long as your body is healthy, dont focus in the aesthetics. i can tell you right now that beating up on yourself gives you no confidence, and no confidence is the ugliest trait in the world
itz ok... i used to be that way when i was 12.. now i'm 14, nd have a different style then i used to..so i suggest that you change ur style!! like.. do something to ur hair, wear makeup.. wear different clothes!! thatz exactly what i did,honey!! GO FOR IT!!!!!! hope i helped, dear!!!! <33
You can't change yourself!!! Just remember that EVERYONE is pretty in there own way! Everyone thinks that they are ugly, stick out, need to remove one flaw from them, or need to change somthing about themselves! What it boils down to is... you need to love yourself for who you are, becasue you could have it much worse! And P.S. I bet your a very beautiful girl, that needs to change NOTHING about her Apperence! You are beautiful Inside and Out! Good luck girl! - Hailey
you shouldn't feel like this...maybe if you pin your bangs back will make your forehead appear a little bit better... TRY using makeup! a little mascara eye shadow eye liner! there are a lot of ways...i'm sorry u feel like this but its really not worth crying over and feeling bad over the more confident you become, you will overcome all these flaws you think you have...everyone has them but you don't have to live your life crying over them... hope i helped :D
i understand where you are coming from. i also have a really big nose which i was always insecure about. kids always made fun of it. and they made fun of how pastey my skin is, and how small my boobs were. but you need to remember, THERE ARE THINGS ABOUT YOU THAT ARE BEAUTIFUL. I had to step back and really look at myself in the mirror and take notice of the things about myself that i really did like. i grew to really like my eyes and my hair. you need to do the same. you need to realize that you have things about you that other girls are probably jealous of, like your long dark hair, your height, your tan skin. i would kill to have your coloring. seriously. you have a look that is distinctly yours, and no one else can have it. once you get some confidence in yourself, you really see your world change. when i started to get confident, i noticed i got more and more attention, and this past year was my freshman year of college and i was voted hottest in the dorm. me, the quiet insecure girl in the back of the room who had the giant nose. it all starts with loving and appreciating yourself. stop beating yourself up. you're not a failure. think of the good things you have. it makes life easier.
Maybe this is your imagination? At least part of it! I was kind of like that in HS, even though guys asked me out a lot, I was always really insecure. "I can not make my forehead bigger"? I spent years with big, ugly bangs trying to hide my "huge" forehead! I am now 33, and I realize that what makes a person really attractive is their personality, and what you have in common. You might not believe me now, but you will someday. My crush is not what a lot of people consider "handsome" in the classic sense anyway, but there is just SOMETHING about some people. A lot of girls want to go out with this guy, too but he has a gf. I hated the way I looked when I was a teen. I thought I had "squinty" blue eyes. I thought I had a huge nose. I hated my thin straight hair, bc it was boring and thin. I hated having a tall forehead. I swore I looked like an alien! Looking back, I was pretty silly. I have grown out of it now! Accept yourself and others will too!! P.S. I would have loved to have had black hair.
look. i discovered this a long time ago. my nose is big and has a bump in it. so what i can still breathe. my boobs are small. so what i can still feed a baby when i need to. my hips are nonexistent. so what i cant wear whatever pants i want and i dont have to deal with problems hippier girls have to. your body is meant for you to live in, no matter how much you complain and ***** about it you're stuck with it. and guess what no amount of plastic surgery can cover up self esteem issues. as long as your body is healthy, dont focus in the aesthetics. i can tell you right now that beating up on yourself gives you no confidence, and no confidence is the ugliest trait in the world Source(s): me. 16 year old girl.
It is your own outlook that will determine whether you're ugly or not. Beauty is subjective and you can dismiss all the attention your cousins receive. Plastic surgery in my opinion is a bad option since you can not undo it or you can keep getting it. Makeup is fake and the smell of it makes me want to vomit. Be yourself and work on your strong points. Eventually someone will come along and appreciate that and your cousins will be irrelevant. Good luck and remain positive.
Well, I can tell you now with not even seeing a picture of you that no one is 'ugly.' The way you described yourself just makes you sound unique and that there's not too many girls that look similar to you. You are right, makeup could boost your self esteem and fix the way you think about yourself; temporarily when you wash off your makeup could you still feel the same way about yourself? Your unique face makes you one in a million, there shouldn't be a certain way you have to look to think of yourself as attractive. If you can't have the haircut that you want, then you could do your hair in a way you could like just as much or more as the haircut you wanted. For every thing you label as 'ugly' there's someone in the world wishing they had it. I say the easiest way would just to be working on your self esteem, if thats too hard you could maybe exercise just a little bit enough to get endorfines in your system which improves the way you look at yourself over all. You could get plastic surgery if you really think it's necessary but just don't lose your character along the way. Also, you could make your forehead bigger by going to a pro salon and asking if they could thin your hairline, or whatever it's called.
Do you have Body Dysmorphic Disorder? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Body_dysmorphic_disorder Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) is a (psychological) Somatoform disorder in which the affected person is excessively concerned about and preoccupied by a perceived defect in his or her physical features if you think youre affected by this please use this support forum bddcentral.com/forums feel free to pm me if you have any questions
First learn how to wear make up. There is lot of information on internet. Try different styles of make up. Try different types of hair styles. It's all in your thinking. When you start thinking negatively about your self you get many bad points. But when you start looking at positive side, positive things you have. Everything will be positive. It's all with in you. Look into your inner self . Start doing meditation.