I am a 47 year old male with very, VERY low self esteem which I have carrying around for years, because of the way I look. I haven't had a girlfriend in SEVERAL years because of my bad genetics and get tired of the constant rejections. People guess my age as late fifties and I agree with them, to ashamed to tell them my real age. All of my brothers are decent looking and are either married or in committed relationships. I lone to finally get married and settle down but every time I try to approach a female, I can tell they are kind of..."yuck, Can he be more gruesome?" My main concern is my "jowls" which are terribly deep. I stay far away from taking pictures and hate looking at myself in the mirror which only depresses me. I cantrulyy tolerate the "baggy" eyelids and the bulbouss" nose but these "jowls" are just getting out of hand. I will even consider being a Guineaa pig" for "new"surgeonss to promote their business. I don't go out to clubs or parties and stay at home ALL THE TIME. My pets, TV and computer are my best friends. Sometimes I catch myselfembarrassinglyy staring at "decent looking" guys,(not gay),not that there is anything wrong with that, but i think to myself...."If I had SOME of their looks"......Yes I have been to psychiatrists who tell me with a pat on the back, "you're ok" but I know if I could just get that one tweakk" (no pun intended) my self confidence would increase 100 per cent. I am so desperate that I would take an chance on "New" surgeons coming out of school. Seriously. Anything is better than thiscontinuallyy sagging. Yes I know.."Looks are not everything" but FIRST impressions areAdmittedlyy or not. If there are Doctors on this site, I would LOVE to hear from you. PLEASE, PLEASE no psychological babble. I've been to enough of "them" only to be offered depression medication which in my opinion only offer "False Reality" Thanks Guys & Girls