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Help, I hate myself for being male...?

So, I know I'll get a bunch of comments about how stupid I am..but I really am just asking for help...I once saw a tyra banks episode of a black woman who wishes she could be white...she even looked into massive plastic surgery to basically reconstruct her entire body to look Caucasian...Now first off let me say that I am not trans sexual...I identify as a male and I do not want to become something else...but I feel ashamed of what I am..that is my issue. There are a number of lines of reasoning that make me upset... 1) men seem colder, uncaring, ruthless...especially toward women...all the misogyny makes me really upset to be part of the male gender. 2) Men are obviously more violent...most violence and rape would end if men all died out 3) Men with their XY chromosome are a mutation of Women's XX...infact...there is speculation that Males might disappear at some point and the Y chromosome will die (others disagree...but bottom-line...men are an offshoot of women) 4) Men make up only 43% of college students and I just think men are dumber (I'm currently not in school but I plan on saving some money to go back...I'm 20 yrs old and just moved out on my own so I put my education on hold until I feel secure with all my finances) 5) Women don't seem too troubled if men DID become extinct...Women really don’t NEED men for anything...a "successful woman" can be pictured as single and with a thriving career...a "successful man" not only has a career but a wife and kids and place in the burbs. I've become obsessed over gender issues lately...and I really do judge my life by how well I am accepted by women. I am overweight and very shy, I have low self esteem...I have been this way since childhood and never had a gf...I feel like being valuable to a woman is my number one goal. If a woman doesn’t view me as worth while and doesn't care if I live or die...I consider myself as worthless. I once watched a trailer for Y:the last man..in which a plague kills all men and women run the world as a paradise...some women mourn their husbands but others embrace the new opportunity...the video trailer shoes silhouettes of dead men and a woman weeping over a male body...but seconds later a poster with men on the wall with "good riddance" scribbled over it while a group of women hold signs calling for a woman's world. I sometimes think that, atleast in my case...no one would weep over my death..especially not any woman...and that good riddance would be more fitting thought to creep over any woman's mind...just another dead worthless male. I feel awful about who I am and I don't I could ever tell a shrink this stuff. but I mean don't I have a point? aren't men more trouble than they are worth? Any emotional attachment women have is a bit illogical isn't it? the same gender they might love also abuses and rapes them..not to mention is responsible for the majority of evil in the world. I just really don't even think I'm wrong. I think women really don't need men and any feeling that they do can be chalked up to Stockholm’s syndrome on a societal level. I am a guy btew..i am not a troll..and Im sure u are nice and caring...but so what? does that mean women need you? or yur gender as a whole to live? that my point...I don;t feel valuable unless im truly needed being "nice to have around" really doesn't cut it for me. Ya know what..i don't care if u believe me...that I am in fact a 20 yd old male...if u want to prove somehow let me know...but I have one thing to say...in all ur time identifying me as some troll...u never address any of my points. Steph & Naomi-Even though I'm not a rapist nor have i ever committed a violent crime... It's not just those negative things that get me down..its the fact that...I don't feel needed by women...i mean imagine if u had a friend who thought u were a good person and fun to hang out with...but then u died and there were kind like "o bummer. o well, I can do without them"..i just feel like I'm not valuable to any women...and elaborating on my point about the Y chromosome and that movie etc...men may actually be extinct someday..and I just think women would be thinking good riddeance...and if not for men as a whole...atelast for me..I don't think I matter to any women.

Public Comments

haha man u want us to be ashamed about our sex see dude nothing wrong u have done so nothing to be a shamed u can change those by ur behaver every one is different
Yes, and women still love men.
Wow. (Not sure what else to add to that)
Yes, but you can pee standing up. And we all wish we could do that! :)
Pathetic female feminazi troll fail! If you actually are male, you are not a man, never will be, and are clearly a homo. I want to say rude things to you now, but I will refrain, because I am a tolerant, kind, and caring man-- something that you could never fathom. edit: OK, I will assume that you are whom you say you are: You are a victim of lesbian-feminism. Everything you have said has been implanted in your thoughts by the liar lesbians known as feminists since the early 90s. Be proud to be a man, because you are superior. A man does not listen to the lies of homosexuals and is unswayed by the evil they spew, because he knows they are beneath him. Men are strong, smart, powerful, calm under pressure, logical, rational, and leaders. Men single-handedly built society, ensured the survival and success of the human race, invented nearly everything, built nearly everything, devised a fair system of law and government, and protected and coddled women since our beginnings. Women without men, would die pathetic cowardly deaths. The lesbians that spew such anger are jealous of men and wish that they were men. They hate men because we are everything they wish they could be, but never will be, so they trick gullible women who aren't very smart to repeat the obvious lies the lesbians tell them. Women can't compete with men, and everyone knows this, but we still allow women to believe that they could somehow equal their superiors in some way, ignore the fact that they have been given ludicrous privileges while men have been severely handicapped just so women can barely compete with men. Without Nazi-esque feminist laws women would be shattered and broken in their lame attempts to be men-- they just are not adapted to warfare, competition, do not have as high an intellect, etc. as men. Women are biologically unable to handle stress well-- through research it has been shown that women don't handle stress as well and release more cortisol. This cortisol also stays withing their bloodstream for many, many hours while it quickly dissipates in men. Living the feminazi work lifestyle makes women end up looking like gay teen boys. There is so much more supporting evidence, but it literally would fill a book. I hate to say these truths, because women are so weak and sensitive, and I truly like women, but the truth is the truth, and I won't stand for one more single boy to be broken and destroyed by those goddamn hateful lesbian pigs! Be proud to be a man, because being a man is great.
YA Thought Police is right. I can pretend to be a female and sham all feminists here. Then when you ask if I am a Male in disguise, I can still say I am a female. A troll is a troll. If you are a woman, well, get back to the kitchen. If you are Male, sorry, you aren't fit to be among the superior gender if you think that way. Go ahead, downgrade yourself by going for MtF surgery. Real Men will do just fine without you among us.
Women and most human beings will disapprove of your self-loathing and lack of confidence. If you want to be loved you must love yourself first. No one is born evil. And penis does not add a +10 to evilness, contrary to popular belief. EDIT: Amen, Rowdy! P.S. - Most of the people I love on Earth are men and if they disappeared, I'd be a broken shell of a woman.
Your understanding of science is even sorrier than your self loathing. If ever there were a time to "man up", you are now at that time. And please read a little science before spreading such drivel.
...too bad...you are a victim of feminist anti male propaganda...its as simple as that...you have been sent the message all of your lifetime that women are good and men are bad...and now you have internalized the idea...its a very sad time to be a male today when I hear young men saying things such as this...shame on every feminist who brought this about...we know we have a severe imbalance when young men say these types of things. ....and btw any of you feminists who thumb me down for this comment are fools if you cant see what is clearly happening here.
If I'm reading between the lines right your just ashamed of negative statistics associated with males, if that's the case then be the opposite of then and a example of what you think a positive man should be like. Unless you are one of those men who did one of the following thing above you have no reason to hate yourself. Good Luck
The majority of nice men are paying the price of a few but dangerous rotten apples. You are innocent and you have nothing to worry about. There is nothing wrong with you.
become a male feminist and spread your hatred for men on a blog or your own forum where female feminists will tell you what a nice man you are for pandering to them, but you still won't get laid by them because they're after a normal man, not a man-hating self-hating man.
It's no Joy or walk in the park being a woman either...you wouldn't get much joy out of it. Trust Me.
I didn't read it but u shuld hate urself for being a man men suck.
Babes, I get where your coming from, but women DO need men. If for no emotional reasons, we need them to have kids. But we do need them for emotional reasons! Yeah, there are some horrible men out there, but there are also some completely wonderful men too! And trust me, women would have mental breakdowns if men started dying out!
If men are so bad then why do women love them?
guys are awesome! i love them! they dorks and are always fun to be around. yes they have issues sometimes but so do we girls. I don't think we girls could actually survive without you, i mean i got 3 brothers and a sister and my sister can be pretty emotional sometimes, if i didn't have my 3 bros i don't know what I'd do. I wouldn't say that men cause most problems, though i don't know it might be true but you got men and women we work together. we need each other. i wouldn't be ashamed of your gender, you don't get to choose it. just make the most of who you are. learn to love yourself, every little bit, and do your best to help others and then it wont matter to you. :) good luck!
do you need your mommy?
Well, think of it this way- if it were all women, humanity would die out. Oh, and another thing- you talked about men being more violent. That's true. For some men. Women, in my opinion, tend to be more malicious, evil, manipulative... and this is coming from a female. It's also of my opinion that female serial killers can be more dangerous than men. I think you should see a shrink. You obviously have some self esteem issues that need some working out.