I'm getting private calls even so often telling me im so ugly (kind of true), what should i do?
like making fun of how i look. I know, they know i hate my nose. I said it okay. You want a picture, ill show you how bad it is.. i totaled my car and insurance might give me $6,000 for in, not sure how that works but called me yesterday telling me i don't need a car, that i should get plastic surgery to mix my nose. i know hate how i look but they know it too. so their trying to bring me down. What should i do? Who should i call? I think its either my ex and his friends, or my ex best friend and her friends? They jealous i have a bf..Jealous because i'm thin. What is it? I need help.
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- Change your phone number, and don't give it out to anyone except close friends and family. Your car is far more important than your nose. If you chose your nose over your car you would only receive insults from those same people for making that choice.
- You could call the cops. Tell them you are being harassed.
- if they are calling your cell, call the company tell them you have been getting private calls that are "pranks", they can trace the calls for you (you may have to wait till they call again and then they get traced) if it's the home phone, you can call that company and they can trace it.... once you know who it is, tell them you are going to have a restraining order taken out if they don't stop calling - this should cure it as for the way you look, you have to be happy with yourself or no one else will - if you don't like your nose, then investigate your options - i'm not going to say go get plastic surgery but if that will make you feel better about yourself then maybe you should consider it....i think there are also some less invasive ways to fix things so look into it. i know how it is to not like something about yourself and how that can make you feel when you face the world. I did something about mine, i had surgery and it worked for me- i gained tons of confidence - but thats not for everyone, you need to really think about how much it bothers you and go from there..... and btw, i seriously doubt, nose or other, that you are ugly - don't let anyone tell you that, most likely its 100% aimed at making you feel bad and they would say that about anyone because we all know it hurts - even when you're a beauty queen :)
- Try and get them to identify themselves, but you also have to record what they say. Then take it to the police once you have proof. I had a problem with pranking after I broke up with my ex when he cheated on me with my best friend, and then when I ended friendships with a group of people because they were immature and for a million other reasons. I never got proof it was my ex. Because I never recorded it. But he and his friends would call and hang up when I answered, or call and say "b*tch" and hang up. Then the other friends would call and say stupid stuff. I don't even remember what it was, now. It was less than a year ago, though. But stupidly, they left me a voicemail without disguising their voice. And it was stupid stuff saying I like hairy men with big d*cks, I dyed my hair black to stand out and be exactly like Amy Lee (which she IS awesome, but not the reason for my hair. And it's pretty ironic because that girl had bright pink and bright green hair and always screamed eto everyone about how she has a boyfriend but wants to dump him for her ex girlfriend...) and stuff like that. Nothing truthful. Well I finally went to the cops. In the voicemail, he said that something about I must be a jew (I'm not). And evidently saying stuff like that really is not ok with the law. Because when the cop heard it, she immediately said it was serious to say something like that about racial comments. So long story short, we drove to the kids house (I couldn't prove the others were involved) and the cop said I could press charges and put the kid in jail for a few weeks at least. But I didn't. I should have. Because it didn't even stop after that. But I didn't. I was dumb. So, record the things, get proof it is them, ask something only they would know or have them unveil their voice. Then take it to the cops and PRESS CHARGES!!! I was stupid and didn't. But don't provoke them. Just ask who they are or how they know you. I'm sure you aren't that ugly. You need to chill out. They're trying to get inside your head, and it is working. Don't let them win and get inside your head like that.
- awww im sure your alot more beautiful than your leading on. it does seem like a jealousy issue. dont worry about it and keep movin' on.
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