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Is this a bad plan? Grown women pls help!?

I am 20 and deathly afraid. I have never had a bf and most guys stay afar off and check me out but never come and ask me out . I am not wholly unfortunate looking i have nice eyes and high cheekbones, great smile. The problem is i'm 5'5" and 190 lbs with rollage going on on my back, neck and everywhere, i kind of have skin issues too. I'm worried that if i don't something drastic to change my appearance i'll end up like my cousin 39 and no man. Mom says just wait on GOD but she married @ 22! So i'm going to lose weight and get to 125 lbs (65 to lose) and then think about liposuction for the areas where the fat still won't come off and fat transfer for those areas like my butt which have little volume. Then i plan to do chemical peels or laser to get rid of acne scars. What are my chances after doing this that i'll find somebody before time runs out? Do you find that life (esp dating) gets better for people who you know that were formerly fat after they lost weight?

Public Comments

1. be yourself first ... and if u feel like u want to change ur appearence its ok ... its not a sin to want to look better ... besides maybe itll help ur confindence issues, flirt a lot plus remeber that theres many ugly woman who get very cute guys .. i think its just the way girls act about boys im 16 and i havent ha a bf either ... so just chill and good things wil come
2. You feel better in every aspect of life once you start loosing weight. I highly suggest Weight Watchers. But your motivation really shouldn't be getting attention from men, it should be your health. Good Luck.
3. dont fret. i know you are not looking for a woman but my girlfriend is about your size and she is adorable! she dated lots before me (male dates that is) you just need to find the right person who will love you just the way you are. my girl might be a little fluffy (as we like to call it) but she has beautiful hair, eyes, mouth, dresses great, is way funny, and really smart. if you ask me she is quite a catch!
4. I dont think women have expiration dates. I have voluptuous friends who met and married their men even though (or maybe because) they were overweight. I feel that the big factor there was their self-confidence. Most smart men are attracted to that trait. If it would boost your self-confidence to do all those stuff, then go for it.
5. You already have pretty attributes like your eyes and smile. Start to exercise and eat healthy and you will feel better. Once you become healthier, your skin may also improve on its own. It's great you have this overall goal for yourself. But don't try to do everything at once. Let's just take it one step at a time. Set small realistic goals to achieve, not so many at once.For each week, give yourself a goal of losing a couple pounds a week. No crash diets or fad diets. They never work. In fact, you'll end up gaining everything back and then some. Remember to drink lots of water for weightloss and healthy skin! You can definitely do it. I can see that you are really determined and ready. You don't want to lead a life to please others. You need to please yourself. Don't think about losing weight to find a man. Do it for yourself. The best reward is feeling proud of yourself. Best wishes!